On the day you said "I do," you probably didn't think you'd have to file for divorce one day. Nevertheless, if you're reading this, you're either thinking about bringing your marriage to a close or you've already initiated the process. At this point, the most important thing you can do from a mental health standpoint is to avoid blaming yourself or your spouse for the breakup.
Introducing the topic of divorce with your spouse may be one of the most difficult things you'll ever have to do. However, the way you do this is important as it will affect how easy your divorce is going to be – both emotionally and financially. The way you start the topic may depend on your spouse's current feelings about the relationship